Erotic Surrender Wrestling

General rules
These will apply in any match, regardless of gender:
-Each match is 3 rounds of 8 posts each, or first to 500 points. Match posts start at first 'attack' move or first touch. Whomever has the most points after 3 rounds wins. Fourth round is an optional humiliation round for the loser. Limits are set by the fighters.
-Points are only awarded when one competitor has the other under 'control' as determined by the 'referee' The referee is either another live member of ESW or roleplayed by the competitors using the honor system.
-Points accumulate from post to post if you maintain the position. For example, if you have control with a pin you get the first 25 points, and for every post you maintain the pin, if your opponent cant escape.
-500 points is considered a dominate victory and the winner gets control right there, no breaks, it goes straight into the humiliation round.
-You cannot submit to avoid an orgasm, so there's no submission after stroking / insertion / oral has started.
-If you submit to a hold, your opponent can do one humiliation on you for the points and the competitor who submitted starts again on all fours.
-There is no standing, striking, or hair pulling. No stalling, running, or not engaging.

ESW isn't as complicated as it seems if you use the same principles as any other cyber fight: Realism, not supering, and fairness. Remember, you're telling a story. No one is getting a medal in the cyber Olympics for this! haha

-Keep it realistic. Like any other match, you're likely not going to realistically do 50 things in one post, or pull off some amazing move when you're not positioned to do so. Keep it simple: React to what your opponent did and offer your reasonable counter or escape attempt.

-No supering! Always 'try' or 'attempt' to do things, never just do them or say what your opponent does, feels, or reacts. You only can say what you do. Your opponent has autonomy over their own body. Take damage! As these matches progress into the later rounds, it should be easier to score, because fighters should be more tired.

-Refereeing: Be fair. If you are both roleplaying as the referee, you are using the HONOR SYSTEM so be honest with yourself: If they got you, they got you. It's ok to be under control and scored on sometimes, that's part of what makes this fun. If you have a 3rd person referee, ONLY THEY decide if and who has control, therefore, who can score. A fair referee will give a fighter a reasonable chance to escape or counter (1 post) before awarding control to the attacker. Also, as fighters, it helps to be clear in your posts via your emotions or actions if your opponent has you, so they or your 3rd party ref, doesn't have to guess.

-Whats control? Glad you asked! It's somewhat subjective, so your results may vary. In general what you should be be looking for is a secure pin, some type of submission hold, or maneuver that mostly or completely immobilizes your opponent that they cant easily counter or escape from.

-Penalties: If necessary the referee (or you both rping as the referee) can give out penalties for frequent rule violations. Keep in mind these are all in good fun and should be rare, just an exciting, occasional tool to enhance your stories. Typically first, a warning is given. Two warnings for the same thing and a penalty is assessed. Three warnings overall and a more severe penalty is assessed. Typical penalties are: Loss of control (if the offender was in control), reset in a neutral position of the referees choosing, reset the offender in a submissive position, awarding control, switch of control (to the same move, just roles reversed), or loss of points (up to 50 per infraction).

-Round four, the humiliation round. Typically its a "fight for top" and/or humiliation session. It's really whatever you want it to be, and you don't even have to do it. Toys are optional. You can discuss with your opponent ahead of time what you'd like to do and roll with that.

-Variations: If you want to add your own spin on the points with favorite attacks like hair pulling, butt play, ect, go for it! Just agree with your opponent how much value they should have and include them in the scoring structure. I just ask that we keep things relatively close to the ESW format. Otherwise, have fun!

-Again, ESW is based of the real life Ultimate Surrender and Evolved fights (and any gay male equivalent). Just like them, you can only score while in control of your opponent, as deemed by the referee. The objective is to get control FIRST, then points. You're wasting opportunities to score otherwise, for example kissing or stripping while no ones in control or you are being controlled. That wont count.

-Attire: thong, string bikini for the women. Speedos, trunks, or shorts for the men. Typically these are solid color. You all can be creative as long as it's something in that ballpark.

-Setting: a broadcast studio with black walls with a large logo of our sponsor Pornhub, and various swimwear and sex toy makers around it. Grey mats, with a large purple circle, black starting marks, and the ESW logo in the middle. Off to the side of the Pornhub logo are two scoreboards, one for each competitor, indicating who has control and the score.

-ESW arena matches: While it's totally ok, and most matches happen in private, sometimes we have matches in the group chat. Members can act as fans, so cheer for your favorite. Participating in that way is encouraged. Just respect the fighters willing to put on a show for you and please don't spam or overdo it, or have non related conversations while a match is happening. Important details can be missed.

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-Variations: If you want to add your own spin on the points with favorite attacks like hair pulling, butt play, ect, go for it! Just agree with your opponent how much value they should have and include them in the scoring structure. I just ask that we keep things relatively close to the ESW format. Otherwise, have fun!

(24JUL21 addition)

Round four - The humiliation round. Typically its a "fight for top" and/or humiliation session. It's really whatever you want it to be, and you dont even have to do it. Toys are optional. You can discuss with your opponent ahead of time what you're like to do and roll with that.

(21JUL21 additions)
-Attire: thong, string bikini for the women. Speedos, trunks, or shorts for the men. Typically these are solid color. You all can be creative as long as it's something in that ballpark.

-Setting: a broadcast studio with black walls with a large logo of our sponsor Pornhub, and various swimwear and sex toy makers around it. Grey mats, with a large purple circle, black starting marks, and the ESW logo in the middle. Off to the side of the Pornhub logo are two scoreboards, one for each competitor, indicating who has control and the score.

-ESW arena matches: Members can act as fans, so cheer for your favorite. Participating in that way is encouraged. Just respect the fighters willing to put on a show for you and please don't spam or overdo it, or have non related conversations while a match is happening. Important details can be missed.

General rules
These will apply in any match, regardless of gender:
-Each match is 3 rounds of 8 posts each, or first to 500 points. Match posts start at first 'attack' move or first touch. Whomever has the most points after 3 rounds wins. Fourth round is an optional humiliation round for the loser. Limits are set by the fighters.
-Points are only awarded when one competitor has the other under 'control' as determined by the 'referee' The referee is either another live member of ESW or roleplayed by the competitors using the honor system.
-Points accumulate from post to post if you maintain the position. For example, if you have control with a pin you get the first 25 points, and for every post you maintain the pin, if your opponent cant escape.
-500 points is considered a dominate victory and the winner gets control right there, no breaks, it goes straight into the humiliation round.
-You cannot submit to avoid an orgasm, so there's no submission after stroking / insertion / oral has started.
-If you submit to a hold, your opponent can do one humiliation on you for the points and the competitor who submitted starts again on all fours.
-There is no standing, striking, or hair pulling

ESW isn't as complicated as it seems if you use the same principles as any other cyber fight: Realism, not supering, and fairness. Remember, you're telling a story. No one is getting a medal in the cyber Olympics for this! haha

-Keep it realistic. Like any other match, you're likely not going to realistically do 50 things in one post, or pull off some amazing move when you're not positioned to do so. Keep it simple: React to what your opponent did and offer your reasonable counter or escape attempt.

-No supering! Always 'try' or 'attempt' to do things, never just do them or say what your opponent does, feels, or reacts. You only can say what you do. Your opponent has autonomy over their own body. Take damage! As these matches progress into the later rounds, it should be easier to score, because fighters should be more tired.

-Be fair. If you have a 3rd person referee, ONLY THEY decide if and who has control, therefor, who can score. A fair referee will give a fighter a reasonable chance to escape or counter before awarding control to the attacker. If you are both roleplaying as the referee, you are using the HONOR SYSTEM so be honest with yourself: If they got you, they got you. It's ok to be under control and scored on sometimes, that's part of what makes this fun.

-Again, ESW is based of the real life Ultimate Surrender and Evolved fights (and any gay male equivalent). Just like them, you can only score while in control of your opponent, as deemed by the referee. The objective is to get control FIRST, then points. You're wasting opportunities to score otherwise, for example kissing or stripping while no ones in control or you are being controlled. That wont count.

-Whats control? Glad you asked! It's somewhat subjective, so your results may vary. In general what you should be be looking for is a secure pin, some type of submission hold, or maneuver that mostly or completely immobilizes your opponent that they cant easily counter or escape from.

-Not engaging or stalling, especially when you have a lead, is frowned upon.

More as we learn together!

I think this set up is great; im in and looking for first match.